Friday, December 12, 2008

Cancer

Ahhhh...Cancer, my wee tot's sign (as well as two of my three favorite cats, My ex boyfriend's parents that are still friends, my best friend Sarah and my niece) And that's just the short list I'm sure there's more(oh yeah, my friend/landlady) I LOVE LOVE LOVE Cancers for the most part. There have been a couple(my step son and deceased uncle, and let's not forget George W) Who I really didn't like but there is a commonality with those maladjusted Cancers that I actually know, their mothers were exceptionally harsh in raising them and they ended up very bitter and hateful. My Uncle in particular ended up becoming an alcoholic(very common of water signs) He also went to Vietnam and I'm sure he had a hard time reconciling what he saw there. Probably a big reason he was the way he was. Sad really because Cancer's are very feeling people, ruled by the moon they are probably some of the most deeply feeling. Scorpio and Pisces are very sensitive also but both show their emotions less. Cancer boys and men need to be allowed to express their emotions without ridicule to grow up well adjusted. It just is part of who they are. I love on my little boy all the time, he's very affectionate with me but not so much with others, he's friendly but reserved. He is a happy boy though and I am convinced it is because I am a very peaceful, happy person at my core and that I have met his needs for attention and affection. That said a few things I've noticed about my Cancer baby: He's always liked to eat and has the classic cancer round belly(which is really cute since he's pretty trim everywhere else!)He's loved water since day 1. He's moody usually when he's hungry or tired. He likes to be close to his momma and when upset seeks her out.(yes, I have become the center of someones universe, a very weird but welcome thing) He doesn't like to have a meltdown in front of people, he's very charming in public but will show his discontent in the car or home.

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